I wonder if men spend their spare time musing about how to improve their marriages? Do they read "how to" books on the subject? I've never known of any who do, (or perhaps only if they have one placed in front of them with the intruction "read!" But I sure know lots of women who are currently reading whatever the latest book is on having a great marriage! What does this say about men and the way they view relationships? Why do women do the majority of the "relationship" work?